The truth about Sado-Masochism By Black Mistress Paris.
What is the level of public, advertised, glorified S and M? Basically, nothing.
No Sadistic man or woman has a public site, flattering his penchant for pain.
The majority of Sadistic people are generally in denial, another part is in jail or
mental institution and the rest of them is hunting in the Vanilla world. NEVER
advertising sadism is the main part of being a Sadist. A very small percentage
seek therapeutic help...ashamed and plagued by remorses. But they are part of
another category of Real Sadistic, the spiritually intelligent one or genious
Sadistic. This last category have the advantage of mastering his sex life thanks
to his spiritual quest or values learned at home, you will never find them in
jail, forums, myspace searching, although they must have a very kinky sexual
life to fantasize about their natural penchant by spankings during sex or
insults, for example. But they WANT to hide it awasomely well; and they can.
Our sites, submissives, coarse words are just an expression of a rooted
fantasy. What about Marquis de Sade then? He was so afraid of his wife that
he had to beg her to bring him tea in jail. I read some of his letters, to report
them here, will just be a bit depressing, it is THAT bad! What actually teases
public SM Players (This is how I will refer to OVERT Dommes seekers) is the
whole process of communicating, doing things in a way similar to SM, own
fantasies, costumes, dungeons, internet use or easy-to-get use, naked images
etcera Is this legendary feeling of power fake? Yes and No. Beating up a
submisssive man or woman means no power to real Sadico. Sadistic player a
the other token, who never experienced self-esteem at home for example or
just traditional SM Plays in real life, will feel more powerful than usual only for
a determined time that is variable.But having pleasure because of pain exist
only for public Sadistic people who are physically masochist. The pleasure that
public Sado Masochism glorify in site comes, after my studies, from the lack of
disgust or fear when inflicting pain. Aside, like in sexuality, which is actually
invented for healing and family building purposes, many Sadistic Players have
problems that they want to get rid of, while others truly just like SM, Sado-
Masochism is the one of the oldest forms of confession and purification, rooting
in the Catholic Church. Marquis de Sade did not invent it, he paganised it,
whilst stunningly bored in jail. Once again, De Sade was a prince charming to
his Lady all his life.
Again, It is not the PRESENCE of pain that excites the public Sadistic, it is
ABSENCE of disgust and fear when hurting, that gives him or her the feeling
of excitation and an illusion of strength.
What about the masochist? The real submissive or masochist is also truly in
denial and will not even try to associate the humble characterisation to
himself. Public or conscious masochism is as easy as ABC. In less than 2 hours,
a good Sadistic Player or Master can reverse your body, actually brain, to feel
pleasure with pain, period. And if you do not reverse this before 2 weeks to 60
days, your body will keep getting a pleasure stimulus in case of pain.
Another myth that is related to the above, Real Sadistic folks do not operate
their bodies to change gender as this is a sure mark of auto-mutilation, auto-
submission to them. There is no such thing as Tranny Domme. Do not be that
stupid, this is a obvious desperate gesture to get money. But if you look very
well, many SM sites have old photoshopped Trans screaming women
supremacy! Who never read FEMALE DOMINATION BY A MISTRESS oxy
moronically? Feminisation and sissification at the other token are truly a token
of worship to femininity and the woman in general. But then again, men have
invaded this area too because they need money for surgical operations.
Where are Sadistic folks then? You can find them in all fields of the society.
Real Sadistic one can be Criminal, Business Man or Woman, Therapist,
Entertainer, Politician, Preacher or just a clean looking man with a solid family
image. Real Sado go after non-consenting folks and some of them truly ask for
therapeutic help. The small time mental Sadic treatment that people get from
racists for example, is more frequent but can also more destructive. Guess
what? You can get it from a Post Office Clerk! The public Submissive looking
for pleasures in sites and forums will not even attract the attention of a real
Sadistic man or woman. Sadistic will find this kind of submissive one repulsive
without even being able to explain why most of the times! Slightly aware
Sadistic folks are usually attracted to submissives in denial and strangely
enough their couples usually stay together longer than the conventional one!
If a playing Dominant woman wants to be happy, she actually has to find her
obedient real submitting man and train him; the good news is that they are
everywhere if you know how to read the signs and...yes they truly are yummy!
Real submissive run to open your door, kneels quicky when you drop
something 3 times without complaining and most importantly, try to anticipate
how to please you before you say a word, but the most charming thing is that
they do not realize anything about their submission! NO ONE CAN FAKE TRUE
SUBMISSION BECAUSE IT IS FIRST OF ALL, A BEHAVIOUR MOTIVATED FROM
A VERY GENTLE, CARING HEART and not from leather hoods, whips and cuffs.
I am sure that some of you, by the way, met, at least, one man or woman who
went from being assertive to submissive after falling in love. And if you don't,
you have not lived. He was submissive all the time, but had not found his
Dominant woman yet! Another point is this: it is common knowledge, that
public submissive men look for a Domina to dominate them after manipulation
when they are bored with vanilla or just rejected. It does not take a Scientist
to figure out that it is truly the Submissive who dominates in public Sado-
Masochism, in the sense that he is getting the best part, what he wants.
After reading this, some questions are coming to your mind.
Why are people stating that they are submissive or dominants then?
Being in SM has MANY ILLUSIVE advantages. Life has taught me that people
do things for a combination of reasons, also the Western Culture mostly to
analyze things on a horizontal level. Here are some of the fake perks, in any
order
- Money. It is legal work.
- It gives the impression of being accepted in a group
- The Scene offers sexual release, I am not saying sexual intercourse. All
these people in SM pretend in forums not to like porn. That is true sometimes,
only after being tired of porn or rejection. They switch to Dominants or
submissives, especially when it is free. The risky part is what makes it
interesting. The risk gives the impression that something is truly happening in
their lives
-It it the place to be for those who are trying to recruit new gays or just gays
who are tired of gays
- It gives illusions, exagerated illusions becomes addictive and a safe place to
escape from reality or hidden heavy culpability
- In some countries, I will not name, it is the ONLY most paying job that
someone waiting for a work permit can practise because of its secrecy
- It is a Paradise for illegal photos. The proof is that the standard sentence on
slave application says, I am not into c... but I would not mind if you Mistress
wants that. YUK. I reject these subs because they protect criminals like
Garatino or this father in Austria. And if you Mistress have been with a
Submissive Player who does not want you suddenly, it might be that he is
around for c...porn business but he has been using you to cover up his
business. Good riddance, his standards letters are exhausted for you he is
already lying to another Mistress. Please do not be ashamed to report anything
illegal of you have one proof.
All these men who are crying for real Sadistic women are not even real
submissive in the first place. A real submissive knows how to find his dominant
woman and to keep her, I will hang up the phone to the someone who insists
on high level of Sadismo, because such a man behaves actually like a stupid
dominant zombie. He considers women inferior creature who must do anything
to please him. It is a privilege to find a woman who agrees to spank a butt.
Because if you think at it well, fake Sadistic Players have more fun and give
more of themselves too. Sadistic Players are more so in touch with their
bodies desires and fantasy, that it is sometimes a shock to hem to admit that
they never met a real Sadistic person, if they get to spot a real one. Want a
very good part of physical Sadistic live in jail, but they cannot be declared as a
mental problem, otherwise a lot of people will lose their jobs.
If you found out that your Brother is in Fake SM, do not worry. Fake SM, at
least, makes vanilla taste fantastic ever after or the day your family member
get bored by faking SM. If it is Real Sado-Masochism, as long as, he does not
do anything illegal or dangerous do not worry for him. The nympho or the male
sex addict is a form of real submission or domination; they are sex slaves. You
do not date your Brother, so relax.
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What is the level of public, advertised, glorified S and M? Basically, nothing.
No Sadistic man or woman has a public site, flattering his penchant for pain.
The majority of Sadistic people are generally in denial, another part is in jail or
mental institution and the rest of them is hunting in the Vanilla world. NEVER
advertising sadism is the main part of being a Sadist. A very small percentage
seek therapeutic help...ashamed and plagued by remorses. But they are part of
another category of Real Sadistic, the spiritually intelligent one or genious
Sadistic. This last category have the advantage of mastering his sex life thanks
to his spiritual quest or values learned at home, you will never find them in
jail, forums, myspace searching, although they must have a very kinky sexual
life to fantasize about their natural penchant by spankings during sex or
insults, for example. But they WANT to hide it awasomely well; and they can.
Our sites, submissives, coarse words are just an expression of a rooted
fantasy. What about Marquis de Sade then? He was so afraid of his wife that
he had to beg her to bring him tea in jail. I read some of his letters, to report
them here, will just be a bit depressing, it is THAT bad! What actually teases
public SM Players (This is how I will refer to OVERT Dommes seekers) is the
whole process of communicating, doing things in a way similar to SM, own
fantasies, costumes, dungeons, internet use or easy-to-get use, naked images
etcera Is this legendary feeling of power fake? Yes and No. Beating up a
submisssive man or woman means no power to real Sadico. Sadistic player a
the other token, who never experienced self-esteem at home for example or
just traditional SM Plays in real life, will feel more powerful than usual only for
a determined time that is variable.But having pleasure because of pain exist
only for public Sadistic people who are physically masochist. The pleasure that
public Sado Masochism glorify in site comes, after my studies, from the lack of
disgust or fear when inflicting pain. Aside, like in sexuality, which is actually
invented for healing and family building purposes, many Sadistic Players have
problems that they want to get rid of, while others truly just like SM, Sado-
Masochism is the one of the oldest forms of confession and purification, rooting
in the Catholic Church. Marquis de Sade did not invent it, he paganised it,
whilst stunningly bored in jail. Once again, De Sade was a prince charming to
his Lady all his life.
Again, It is not the PRESENCE of pain that excites the public Sadistic, it is
ABSENCE of disgust and fear when hurting, that gives him or her the feeling
of excitation and an illusion of strength.
What about the masochist? The real submissive or masochist is also truly in
denial and will not even try to associate the humble characterisation to
himself. Public or conscious masochism is as easy as ABC. In less than 2 hours,
a good Sadistic Player or Master can reverse your body, actually brain, to feel
pleasure with pain, period. And if you do not reverse this before 2 weeks to 60
days, your body will keep getting a pleasure stimulus in case of pain.
Another myth that is related to the above, Real Sadistic folks do not operate
their bodies to change gender as this is a sure mark of auto-mutilation, auto-
submission to them. There is no such thing as Tranny Domme. Do not be that
stupid, this is a obvious desperate gesture to get money. But if you look very
well, many SM sites have old photoshopped Trans screaming women
supremacy! Who never read FEMALE DOMINATION BY A MISTRESS oxy
moronically? Feminisation and sissification at the other token are truly a token
of worship to femininity and the woman in general. But then again, men have
invaded this area too because they need money for surgical operations.
Where are Sadistic folks then? You can find them in all fields of the society.
Real Sadistic one can be Criminal, Business Man or Woman, Therapist,
Entertainer, Politician, Preacher or just a clean looking man with a solid family
image. Real Sado go after non-consenting folks and some of them truly ask for
therapeutic help. The small time mental Sadic treatment that people get from
racists for example, is more frequent but can also more destructive. Guess
what? You can get it from a Post Office Clerk! The public Submissive looking
for pleasures in sites and forums will not even attract the attention of a real
Sadistic man or woman. Sadistic will find this kind of submissive one repulsive
without even being able to explain why most of the times! Slightly aware
Sadistic folks are usually attracted to submissives in denial and strangely
enough their couples usually stay together longer than the conventional one!
If a playing Dominant woman wants to be happy, she actually has to find her
obedient real submitting man and train him; the good news is that they are
everywhere if you know how to read the signs and...yes they truly are yummy!
Real submissive run to open your door, kneels quicky when you drop
something 3 times without complaining and most importantly, try to anticipate
how to please you before you say a word, but the most charming thing is that
they do not realize anything about their submission! NO ONE CAN FAKE TRUE
SUBMISSION BECAUSE IT IS FIRST OF ALL, A BEHAVIOUR MOTIVATED FROM
A VERY GENTLE, CARING HEART and not from leather hoods, whips and cuffs.
I am sure that some of you, by the way, met, at least, one man or woman who
went from being assertive to submissive after falling in love. And if you don't,
you have not lived. He was submissive all the time, but had not found his
Dominant woman yet! Another point is this: it is common knowledge, that
public submissive men look for a Domina to dominate them after manipulation
when they are bored with vanilla or just rejected. It does not take a Scientist
to figure out that it is truly the Submissive who dominates in public Sado-
Masochism, in the sense that he is getting the best part, what he wants.
After reading this, some questions are coming to your mind.
Why are people stating that they are submissive or dominants then?
- Being Pro Dominant or submissive or switch is always a carefully chosen
fantasy. Again, a real Sadistic or submissive is truly in denial, therefore
will not enter The Scene. - Many Dommes work for one single Webmaster. Some of these Dommes
have literally be found on the street. A few junkies are also stuck in this
profession. But this is not my work to criticize, judge or even think about
giving names that one of these Webmasters gave me.
Being in SM has MANY ILLUSIVE advantages. Life has taught me that people
do things for a combination of reasons, also the Western Culture mostly to
analyze things on a horizontal level. Here are some of the fake perks, in any
order
- Money. It is legal work.
- It gives the impression of being accepted in a group
- The Scene offers sexual release, I am not saying sexual intercourse. All
these people in SM pretend in forums not to like porn. That is true sometimes,
only after being tired of porn or rejection. They switch to Dominants or
submissives, especially when it is free. The risky part is what makes it
interesting. The risk gives the impression that something is truly happening in
their lives
-It it the place to be for those who are trying to recruit new gays or just gays
who are tired of gays
- It gives illusions, exagerated illusions becomes addictive and a safe place to
escape from reality or hidden heavy culpability
- In some countries, I will not name, it is the ONLY most paying job that
someone waiting for a work permit can practise because of its secrecy
- It is a Paradise for illegal photos. The proof is that the standard sentence on
slave application says, I am not into c... but I would not mind if you Mistress
wants that. YUK. I reject these subs because they protect criminals like
Garatino or this father in Austria. And if you Mistress have been with a
Submissive Player who does not want you suddenly, it might be that he is
around for c...porn business but he has been using you to cover up his
business. Good riddance, his standards letters are exhausted for you he is
already lying to another Mistress. Please do not be ashamed to report anything
illegal of you have one proof.
All these men who are crying for real Sadistic women are not even real
submissive in the first place. A real submissive knows how to find his dominant
woman and to keep her, I will hang up the phone to the someone who insists
on high level of Sadismo, because such a man behaves actually like a stupid
dominant zombie. He considers women inferior creature who must do anything
to please him. It is a privilege to find a woman who agrees to spank a butt.
Because if you think at it well, fake Sadistic Players have more fun and give
more of themselves too. Sadistic Players are more so in touch with their
bodies desires and fantasy, that it is sometimes a shock to hem to admit that
they never met a real Sadistic person, if they get to spot a real one. Want a
very good part of physical Sadistic live in jail, but they cannot be declared as a
mental problem, otherwise a lot of people will lose their jobs.
If you found out that your Brother is in Fake SM, do not worry. Fake SM, at
least, makes vanilla taste fantastic ever after or the day your family member
get bored by faking SM. If it is Real Sado-Masochism, as long as, he does not
do anything illegal or dangerous do not worry for him. The nympho or the male
sex addict is a form of real submission or domination; they are sex slaves. You
do not date your Brother, so relax.
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